Using condoms every time isn’t easy for everyone. Also, not everyone uses condoms, or manages to use them every time. If you want to use condoms, it’s important to talk about it, so that you can make condoms a smoother part of hooking up. Sometimes guys get in the heat of things, and stray from… View Article
Talking about the sex you want can be hard. And stigma, discrimination, shame, and misunderstanding make it even tougher to speak up. So how can you assert yourself, or stick to your plan in a tough situation? For example, how do you react when a guy doesn’t reach to get a condom before fucking, and… View Article
Cruising for sex, dating, and looking for guys to meet up with online can sometimes make us say or do things we wouldn’t expect. Being careful about how we treat each other means we’re less likely to cause harm and more likely to have the sex we’re looking for. Sometimes hooking up and dating can… View Article
A guy who’s HIV-negative might hit up another guy whose online profile says he’s HIV-negative, so they have sex without a condom. Or perhaps when a guy says he’s negative, that acts as a green light to fuck without a condom. When it comes to reducing HIV, choosing to only have sex with other HIV-negative… View Article
Are you in or thinking about having an open relationship? Or are you thinking about becoming exclusive? Are you falling in love with someone? There are lots of questions guys might have as they try to make relationship agreements. Every relationship is unique. Whether he’s a guy you’ve been dating, someone you just met, or… View Article
When a guy shares sensitive information with you, consider what the effects of your response might be. It’s up to each of us to have the conversations we want to have with our sex partners. The more we talk about tough stuff, the more skillful we become at doing just that. Being honest and kind… View Article
There are a few questions you might ask yourself about the sex you’re having, so you can get an idea of the sex you want going forward. What kind of sex are you having? What does the sex that you’re having normally involve? Do you notice yourself doing certain things in certain situations? Be honest… View Article
For gay guys, good sex is an important part of our lives. And of course, sex is as complicated as ever. Many of us still worry about the transmission of HIV and STIs. And we’re still figuring out how to take care of ourselves when society doesn’t always make it easy to do so. As a… View Article
What else might you want to know about PrEP How well does PrEP work? When doesn’t PrEP work? How do I make PrEP work best? What do trans guys need to think about when taking PrEP? So do I still need to wear condoms? What if I forget to take my pill? I’m on PrEP… View Article
What else might guys want to know about PEP and how it works? How well does PEP work? When does PEP not work? What else can I do to make PEP work best? Something happened a couple days ago, can I still get PEP? Can I use PEP as a treatment more than once? What… View Article
